Emergency Resources
In an emergency, please call 911 or go to your nearest hospital emergency room.
If you need support right now, please reach out to one of the following agencies:
+1-888-494-3888 (24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year)
+1-250-800-3806 (6 pm – 10 pm, 7 days a week)
www.vicrisis.ca (6 pm – 10 pm, 7 days a week)
+8-1-1 (any time of the day or night)
For the deaf and hard of hearing: +7-1-1 (TTY) or for VRS, visit Video Relay Services to sign up, then give them the number 604-215-5101.
Text 686868
+1-800-663-1441 (multilingual telephone assistance is available)
Provides support and information and can lead to emergency housing for people who identify as women and are currently experiencing intimate partner violence and abuse. Family and friends as well as professionals can also call for support and information 24 hours a day.
Educational Resources
If you are looking to learn about one of the following topics, here are some resources I recommend:
- I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Wasn’t), by Brené Brown
- The Gifts Of Imperfection, by Brené Brown
- TED Talk: The Power of Vulnerability, by Brené Brown
- The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself, by Kristin Neff
- Self-Compassion Guided Practices and Exercises
- How to Understand Your Sexuality: A Practical Guide for Exploring Who You Are, by Meg-John Barker and Alex Iantaffi
- Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life, by Emily Nagoski
- Gender: Your Guide, by Lee Airton
- The Body is Not an Apology: The Power of Radical Self-Love, by Sonya Renee Taylor
- Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle, by Emily Nagoski and Amelia Nagoski
- The Highly Sensitive Person, by Elaine N. Aron
- The Dance of Anger, by Harriet Lerner
- Attached. The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find – and Keep – Love, by Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Heller
- TED Talk: Everything You Know About Addiction is Wrong, by Johann Hari
- Kids Are Worth It, by Barbara Coloroso
- The New Speaking of Sex, by Meg Hickling (For Parents)
- Boys, Girls, and Body Science, by Meg Hickling (For Kids)
- The 5 Love Languages, by Gary Chapman (WARNING, although I like the information in this book, it uses very heteronormative language. If this will distress you, please do not read it.)
- The Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work, by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver